Romance

So as I sit here late at night, listening to VH1 soul, sipping on a little muscato before bed I wonder is there any romance left in the world? Or even in relationships anymore for that matter. When does the romance start and when does the romance end? What do we do to keep it going? Take my relationship for example. My fiance I love him with everything and I fell in love him because of many things, but one in particular because of how romantic he was. He use to do so many things for me and it wasn't big extravagant things, but little things that were just for me. I use to do things for him too until one day he stopped and I was the only one doing romantic things. Its been so long that he has done anything I have forgotten what romance is or even how it feels. I tell him time and time again that I miss what he use to do for me, but its like he doesn't care. It hurts because I am so scared that the romance will disappear from our relationship and our marriage will just be a marriage no romance or anything. I just know that will make our relationship complete if we had that. He is always telling me I look sad or depressed I guess I always look like that because I kind of am. I have a relationship that I know could be beyond amazing and its not because there is no romance there anymore. I find myself even thinking about romantic moments I had in other relationships just so I can at least remember what it feels like. I have flat out told him I wasn't happy and either he doesn't get it or he doesn't care I don't know how else to tell him.